It’s a two-way street, obviously, but we’re going to look at the most common mistakes men make instead of the mistakes women make.
It’s not easy to admit when someone makes a mistake. It seems even harder to admit it and apologise when we have wronged our own partner in some way. These are some of the most typical male blunders, according to brightside.me, that can lead to relationship breakdown:
1. Don’t be aloof, talk about your problems! Don’t be closed-minded, don’t keep your problems to yourself.
2. Don’t just pretend to listen, because they may ask you back and even want to know your opinion!
3. Don’t keep reminding him of his faults, because you have them too! This can turn into a nasty argument and unnecessary bickering.
4. Don’t love him for what he does for you! Love her for herself, she is not your servant. Help her, they are equals in the home!
5. do not put her down in front of the children, for you will take away the respect of the children.
6. do not feast your eyes on other women, at least not in her presence. A quick glance is one thing, but a glance with your eyes undressed is another. It is disrespectful.
7. Don’t take it out on her in anger, especially not to the point of assault! You are stronger and louder, don’t abuse it!
8. Don’t think you are smarter than he is, and don’t try to make him feel it! You will get him back someday, somehow!
9. Don’t try to solve his problems at all costs! He is an adult and often just wants to blow off steam before he starts to solve the problem. Listen to him!
10. Make him feel that you love him. The feeling of love lifts you up and makes you happy, it’s the power that feeds your relationship.
11. Don’t be a paper tiger. One heroic act does not excuse two weeks of housework. Small gestures are noticed and appreciated by the ladies anyway.
12. Don’t talk bad about your partner behind his back! It’s disrespectful, degrading and says a lot about you. You’re a team, remember?
13. Don’t escape into the world of technology, because it won’t go after you for long!
14. Don’t run away from difficult conversations. After a while, he doesn’t want to talk about anything, he just submits the roadmap.
15. Don’t run out of intimacy, kissing and hugging, because it’s the lifeblood of a relationship. Without them, you might as well be living with a friend, what difference would it make?
